Nevermind The Small Stuff...

Life is not about it being too short. It's about what you do with it while you're in it that counts. Life is too precious to be worried about the short stuff...little things. You know....

Sharing Is Good:

The trick is to be able to share yourself without expecting or requiring anything in return. If you can do that, you can stay whole, no matter who you're dealing with or whatever the situation --Rikkity

Don't Lose Your Chances:

Isn't time to start appreciating what you do have rather than focusing on what you don't have? Our lives tend to get overwhelming, busy, chaotic, etc, so much so we get whirled in it and lose vision on what's most important. One thing I am aware of is some take people's presence for granted that are or were in their lives. If someone has presented to you that they’ll be there for you no matter what, then perhaps it's time to value such a gift. A mistake so often made is assuming that, that special someone will always be around because they’ve stuck around for some time now. Imagine this; loving someone that once loved you: not a pleasing thought. When you realize and/or acknowledge someone is extremely special to you, never let them feel normal again, and never let them go. Don't assume they know you care, instead let them know, tell them everyday, assure them, because if you refuse to do so, perhaps you'll never get the chance to, and you’ll be too much too late.

Key: stop caring for those who don't care and appreciate you; start loving those who do and very much adore you, its’ that simple. When you’re given compassion, why waste your time trying to get chosen and/or approved by others?  Don't wait to lose something wonderful in order to take notice of it's tremendous value. And yes, there's a lot to learn and gain by losing, but why make that the only way, option to win in life..Be wise and know what preserves happiness; it’s much better to keep something right than it is to get it back right. Realize what you have before it becomes what you once had. Don't be so oblivious to what God has laid before you.

Eliminate Emotions, And Give Logic A Chance:

Making permanent decisions based off of temporary emotions such as: anger, frustration, and disappointment can cause permanent damage--don't allow these emotions impart confusion, or allow them to have a massive, negative impact over your life; don’t permit that your bad mood ruin a good situation. 

Whether in an relationship or just in any situation, neither you nor your partner is perfect, nor any thing in life; however, do try and strive for excellence. Practice compassion with mistakes. Give them some cushion to mess up, learn from it, and improve in that area.
How will you ever experience the joy of making a good thing great if you aren’t patient enough to invest time towards having the real thing? Learn patience. In order to get the benefits you righteously deserve-one must wait the time, endure the pressure, and survive the struggle. If you’re one of those people who run with emotions, be prepared to live with regrets.
Think before you speak. Think before you act. Learn to keep your calm and think things thoroughly. No-one deserves the smooth sailing, easy, piece of cake days if you quit every time things get tough/rough.
It's easy to jump to conclusions and move with assumptions before you seek out the facts and/or truth. With the exception that some will give the absolute truth, and some will not. Some will be receptive to it and some will not. Either way, you’re never sure until you know, and you’ll never know until you ask, but if you’re too prideful to ask then be humble enough not to assume.
There is no perfect relationship/life but just because the situation isn’t perfect doesn’t mean it won’t be worth the wait and/or the effort. Seeds of faith can blossom into a beautiful garden full of genuine love when planted in the right soil, and solid grounds. Prepare the foundation before you begin to build; it takes time to build a firm foundation. What you put into your situation determines what you get out of that particular situation.
You can’t give a half and expect to get a whole. Always give your one hundred and ten percent; never lowering your expectations, never allow a person manipulate you to the point you risk your values, morals and standards. You are all you've got and that's everything; only you know what's good for you. Listen to your intuition; which tears down any and all emotional barriers. The wise live by faith, while fools rely on unrealistic truths.
In the event you're not up for the challenge, perhaps backing away from it will save you. Don't focus so much on the battle, however do put your energy on making it through the war. All in all, a battle is a battle, one doesn't weigh more than the other, people will be tried and tested, still suffer, and endure pain..
Remember: God is no respecter of persons; He will actually intervene in your life, help you, and fight your battles for you. There is nothing too impossible when you allow God to intervene and when you surrender all to Him, for He holds your world in His hands. Fret not, stay grounded, be humble, and be unwavering. If He got you out of that, He'll see you out of this.

Stop. Be still. Wait.

There's absolutely no pleasure when things don't turn out the way you had previously planned. And in some cases, you may find that it's actually for the best, surprisingly. When you get to a point where you're not sure how to proceed: Stop. Be still. Enter into the silence. Cease from all your restless thinking. Wait. Let the answer come in its time. Take the time to step back from your disappointment, reflect, re-connect with your passion, release all negativity, and replace all with positive energy. Rest assured that there will always be a positive, effective way to move past any adversity and a clear shot to move forward. Not everything is lost, because you still have the now, chance, ability and the desire/opportunity to make things right. Grasp, take hold of the fresh new opportunity, and run with it. Stop worrying about how others live their lives and focus on living yours, because you don't want to waste your constructive time, nor miss your blessings. If you're "still breathing" then you are most fortunate and are certainly given a fresh new opportunity to change and make things right. The time is now. It's never too late to turn things around.

In It, Not Of It:

Take pleasure in the adventure while in the physical world. We're all in it, but not of it.  We come from a higher source. Receive the gift and enjoy—refuse enduring the struggle. Center your consciousness in what you know is true, and in the truth of your being—your true reality/identity—see your earth life for what it actually is. Knowing it's an enjoyable diversion, lessons in truth, and always a challenge for future enhancement, and growth. #InItNotOfIt

Time Is Everything:

One Lifetime: each one containing countless options, possibilities and decisions, in which only one can emerge; each with the ability to create and/or erase another...

I strongly and undoubtedly believe there's a time for everything, a time for every purpose, a season for every activity,  and not everything happens for a reason.

A Made Up Mind:

Don't rely on someone else, nor things for your happiness, only you are responsible for that. And if making a change is worth your happiness, then turn it around, no matter how uncomfortable it may seem--we all deserve to be happy!

The only thing you can change is yourself, your surroundings, but sometimes that changes everything. Sometimes the bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before: The Greater Things!!

No-one has the power to make things perfect, but you do have the power to make things right. You can't expect things to change, or expect a different outcome if you don't change your thinking--make up your mind! You can never make the same mistake twice, the second time you make it, its no longer a mistake, its a choice!

There will come a point in your life when you will eventually have to put childish things behind in order to live a successful, abuntant life. Stop killing your chances at a future full of possibilities and success; quit looking back and holding onto the past, former life. Time's a wasting.

Life isn't always easy, but you can make it better by changing the way you look at it; somethings were meant to be! Timing is EVERYTHING, never underestimate the power of time. We have to keep pumping positive thoughts into our minds so that our emotions which often control our reactions remain positive.

You can't worry about tomorrow; for it will worry about itself, you can't change what once was; it's in the past and it should remain there. Learn to live in the moment, this very moment, the now--love that you are exactly where you are meant to be, right here, where you belong!

Life is too precious to be unhappy; if you are honest with your situation and yourself you leave yourself open for great things to follow.

Progression For Possession:

At the end of the day, people just want someone trustworthy, someone they can have faith in, someone they can share their love with, and someone who will be there for them. And if you were given the chance, that opportunity and you refused to take it; don't get mad at God or blame others because you made the choice to miss out on the BEST thing.

When you were given the chance, and you didn't appreciate a person's time, why care when it's given to somebody else?

Love won't make you feel unappreciated, but stupidity and selfishness will. Stop reaching out to those who aren't willing to reach back. Everybody who knows better won't always do better. Some people simply just don't care enough to. You can't change people, but that's not to say people won't ever change, and unfortunately, some most less than others are unwilling to change, they're unchangeable.
 
You only have the power to change you, your environment and situation. Make it a conscious effort to surround yourself with victors of light, those who could be of value to your life, and who could possibly give insight to your hopes and dreams. Strip away from low energy life suckers who sap your strength and positive energy. You deserve the best, and you came into this world with a devine purpose,  for a reason, it's your absolute right to live a fullfiled purposed life, which you were destine to live.

Don’t ever take experiences for granted; the things you learn from temporary pain, temporal distractions and/or bad choices can lead to long term happiness. There's a high price to pay for the absolute best! The key is to never give up, and to never give up on you!

The Heart Speaks:

Any situation that produces pain, anything that is hurtful, has the ability to teach you. However, if it continues to hurt you, it’s because you haven’t learned your lesson.

Be wise enough to let your emotions drive you, just be sure they're driving you somewhere rather than a dead end road. Be attentive to warning signs, you won’t find happiness or love down a dead end. Follow your heart; it has a better sense of direction than any other thing within you--and make sure that it's your heart speaking.

Some people claim to be listening to their heart but few recognize how it speaks. Your heart will speak in terms of: be loving, forgiving, kind, all good, and it won't tell you otherwise. The heart was not designed to speak negative. Your heart will speak of your needs; while your flesh will speak of your wants. The heart speaks volumes.

Wanting something because it makes you feel good is bound to fade away, but your heart knows exactly what you need, what's good for you; actually, it will recognize if it’s real. It's not fair to blame your heart for the actions you asked for, your heart did not lead you there, your lack of listening to it did.

In order to remember what you truly deserve, you have to forget what you want, but not knowing what you deserve, you’ll never be able to get it. The heartless are lifeless, if you want more love, it’s going to start with you giving it out, sharing more of your love, that is.