Saturday, February 26, 2011

Benefiting Others:

Have the confidence to step out in faith and be that person who will help someone move forward. Help someone accomplish their dream. Encourage others and build them up. With God on your side, you can draw the best out of people and help them succeed.


You see, it's not always about YOU! Give of yourself. All a person may need is a little push, and why not let that person be you; who builds them up and help get them moving up to the top of that mountain. You never know when you'll need a little push of your own. Give a little to get a little. Be a blessing to be blessed! That's how it goes my friends.


Stay blessed!

Thursday, February 24, 2011

Is it time for an alignment...

When your heart is right, your mind will align itself; which will then lead to the truth. You're gonna lose some people throughout your journey; release them and you'll gain more of you. 

Love and let go! Some are just not meant to be in your life, forever. Face it and move on! Trust me, the load gets lighter! Life is magnificent, even when the sh*t hits the fan! There IS light at the end of every tunnel. Open your eyes! 

Happiness and Pleasure; don't get them confused. Happiness is not pleasure, nor does pleasure lead to happiness. Get it right, and align yourself!

Keep moving anyways...

Your best won't be good enough for some people, and don't expect everybody to see or understand your vision/dreams/goals, but keep moving anyways! Being underestimated will only make your success that much more sweeter! Don't worry about what others may say or think; stay focused on YOU! 


End of story!!

Reality Of Life:

Greatness is achieved when ordinary people desire to do extraordinary things. Fixate your eyes on virtues such as peace, joy, and love. Seek greatness, not perfection, seek happiness, not approval, people will bask in your failures until you show them they’ve pushed you to your success. A hater is nothing more than a pessimistic admirer; only a diamond can scratch a diamond, so even when those doubters throw stones they still can’t shape you. Enjoy your mistakes and embrace your flaws, give up on being perfect and begin working on becoming yourself. Greatness isn’t in perfection, it’s in originality and that comes with a few mistakes.  


Yes, sometimes we make mistakes: we hurt people, we lie, and we fail, it’s the reality of life. We’re human, our intentions should always be to do right, and our actions should aim to do what is just, right, following positive results. Don’t limit yourself just because people place limitations on you. Aspire to be better and strive for excellence; doing away with perfection, but finding perfection in the imperfecttions. Don't be discouraged, don’t be afraid of criticism, the only way to avoid criticism is to do nothing, be nothing; being critizied means you must be doing something right.. 


~Thoughts For The Day



Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Fight the Good Fight:

One must keep fighting, persevering, and living. Conquerors move in faith, cowards are bullied by fear. Are you still breathing? God is not through with you yet. Although you may feel you’re losing, or almost feel as though you are being defeated--stop, be still, and realize you waking up this morning is indeed evidence that you haven’t lost. Be encouraged--God has the final say in every situation regarding you. It may be impossible to see at the moment, but you are not alone and your efforts are not in vain. Your failures are steppingstones, your trials are a gateway to triumph, and with every fall is a new strength to rise again to fight the good fight. 


Take heed in knowing that God wants you to live an abundantly life. He wants more for you than you could ever imagine. If He says no to it, your life has no use for it. Fear is what binds you, and faith is what frees you. Stretch your faith against what confines you have placed on your reality. 


As you head towards your destination, taking the road to your destiny, you may have to jump some hurdles, perhaps hit a few speed bumps along the way, but by all means, don't let that slow you down. Don't let nothing prevent you, nor stop you from stepping up to the next level in your life; keep on keeping on. Whether it be your job, family, and especially your “friends” that are putting a hold on you; keep going, keep moving, don't let nothing or no one stop you from becoming the person you were destine to be, and from fulfilling your purpose. 


Clear away any and all hindrances. Be strong and of good courage, be fearless, and be faithful; you will learn that no storm will last too long. Remember: the battle has been won.

Sunday, February 20, 2011

The meaning of Tough Love:


[‎To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved.]


If you’re an amazing person then be an amazing person. Just don’t waste time trying to prove it to someone who doesn't care. You shouldn’t have to prove to someone that you’re a great catch. They should prove to you that they have a great hand. Doesn't matter how good you feel, or fit with somebody, a forced situation is the foundation of a fake one and one that is surely to be set up for failure. 


You can’t open a man’s eyes for him; he has to want to see, and you can’t open a woman’s heart for her; she has to want to feel. When you get weak excuses like “you deserve better” leave them alone because the person you deserve will be the one that tells you “it gets no better.” You want a partner that doesn't need you to show your cards for them to know that you’ll play a good hand. You’re with the wrong one if you have to wear a crown in order to be recognized as royalty. 


Many times insecurity is mistaken for one being insecure of themselves verses one being insecure of the stability of an relationship. You must know exactly what your partner is insecure about; is there a reason, did you cheat, are you giving your partner doubts based on what you said verses your actions, did you play a part in shaking the foundation of the "relationship" rather than thinking it's the "person" who is insecure with themselves? It's very important to know the difference between the two, and be very discerning and observing. Learn the relationship.


Don't cheat each other from the truth and reality of whats considered logic. If your partner denies the truth, and not welling to face it nor accept it, nor work on the surfaced issues, then it's time to let go, and move on. Dating and starting over may be very uncomfortable and extremely painful, but it’s not as painful as knowing you’re wasting your time. Don’t try to be what somebody else wants you to be; what’s making them happy may end up making you miserable. If the one you love can’t recognize you’re special, they may just have to learn to appreciate you by losing you. Sometimes you have to forget what you want, in order to remember what you deserve.
~Thoughts For The Day

This Is It--No Limitations:

It’s not too late to begin a new career, launch a business, or to revive a goal, dream that you've put on hold. There's a reason you're here, right now, you have something left to do, so many things to be accomplished, and gained.

There is no better time than now, this is the moment:

If not now, when?

If not here, where?

If not this, what?

If not you, who?

What are you waiting for?

This is it!!

Take all that you’ve been through and throw it up against what you’re facing. There’s strength for the stage you’re in right now. There’s another mountain in you. Work your way out and up without limitations.

You are still here and still alive, so live!


Know That You Are Blessed Beyond Measure:

Once you focus on the gifts instead of the problems, your whole perspective will change; you will see blessings everywhere, and your joy will increase.

Yes, we all face challenges, some more intense than others; however, there are so many blessings to be counted for, and in most cases they certainly out weigh the hardships we face on a day to day basis, easily.

Know that you are blessed beyond measure, and know that you are not here to prove yourself to no-one, nor here to impress no-one but you. Your only competition is you!

Sometimes it takes only a moment of conscious effort to recognize your gifts and blessings: You are gifted, and blessed beyond measure.

Friday, February 18, 2011

Erasing you, Not replacing you...

Never underestimate the actions of a person who’s fed up. You may feel irreplaceable, but when a sound mind is made up, it’s looking to erase you, not replace you.



Don't be fooled:

Some believe that if you have no expectations then you get no disappointments; but don't let that fool you, because when you deny expectations you fail to set the standards.