Two Options - Acceptance or Denial:

Having doubts and catering to denial are only mere distractions, and a complete waste of time; which only provide people with more regrets than plans. The “could haves” are somewhat hard to accept, but understand that the “could” in that phrase only implies that it definitely wasn’t meant for you.

In life, what is supposed to happen, happens; and what is yours, will be yours, however, it simply won't always happen as we see fit. In moments like this when life throws you curve balls, you have two options: acceptence and change, denial and suffer. In choosing the route of denial, you will have suffered the cost, delays; and in accepting the truth, you would have overcome fear and have save yourself from all the horrible lies.

When something hurts you or causes you excruciating pain; don’t tell yourself it doesn’t hurt. And if you sincerely care, don’t try and find ways to hide it. True healing comes from recognition. Putting up a front will only take you two steps back and bring forth delay to where you are going in life, etc. Love--the worst thing you can do is deny it--that it exist when you find that special someone, don’t let anyone or anything get in your way and/or interfere. In most situations, you will most likely get one chance to make it right, give it time.

Impatience will give you crappy results when, patience will give you the results you deserve and long for. When you change your stinking thinking from what 'could be' possible to knowing things 'are' possible, then you would have inherit the power to make a choice and move forward with it!. In life, there's only peace in the truth, which will always prevail. And with knowing and accepting that, you will know that you can never run from what you already know, and so you might as well use it to your advantage.

Play it safe.

Balance Is Key In Everything; From The Natural To The Supernatural:

One thing I've always asked God for is balance in my life; without it I am like a flower withering away, drying or shriveling up...

When you do the right thing, it will feel right in your body. Your body never lies. When you feel stress in your body, something is out of balance in your life. Today ask that your balance may be restored to you, and that your body and spirit will reflect the rightness of your choice, because it surely will--from the natural to the supernatural!

Reflections On Being Patient:

When something seems utterly worth it to you; you'll most likely be willing to wait for it, under any and all cost. Although, some see it as patience being a former time, either or it's still a priceless virtue. And even though it seems to be put in the back burner of convenience--there are more and more people unwilling to wait for anything anymore. In most events; if things don't come on your time, or as perfect as you expect certain this to be; how then can we say that we want it to come at all. Stop being like most typical people and wait on all the wrong things, but so impatient, and/or so quick in giving up for all that is right. When in your heart of hearts, you are aware of all that you deserve, and know without a doubt something is truly yours; at that point and time you know there’s no such thing as it taking too long because you are confident that it’s only just a matter of time. Patience is the key to endurance, and that key unlocks the door to consistency, which inclines you to all that is real, and most importantly, inviting you to what is key--trust. Nothing requires patience like love. Nothing respects patience like trust. And nothing values patience more than joy and happiness. Have the willingness to be patient long enough for life to give you all, or most of the answers to questions you may have now or in the near future. Uncertainty doesn’t always mean one is lost or bewildered; in most cases uncertainty is just there to remind you and teach you how to wait on God. Those who are willingly embraces patience and waits for what they want and will never be denied of what they want and or need. A patient person has perfect timing.; however, don't use patience as an mere excuse to procrastinate or become lazy. Patience is key, but being idle is pure evil. Consider all the sources.

Nevermind The Small Stuff...

Life is not about it being too short. It's about what you do with it while you're in it that counts. Life is too precious to be worried about the short stuff...little things. You know....

Sharing Is Good:

The trick is to be able to share yourself without expecting or requiring anything in return. If you can do that, you can stay whole, no matter who you're dealing with or whatever the situation --Rikkity

Don't Lose Your Chances:

Isn't time to start appreciating what you do have rather than focusing on what you don't have? Our lives tend to get overwhelming, busy, chaotic, etc, so much so we get whirled in it and lose vision on what's most important. One thing I am aware of is some take people's presence for granted that are or were in their lives. If someone has presented to you that they’ll be there for you no matter what, then perhaps it's time to value such a gift. A mistake so often made is assuming that, that special someone will always be around because they’ve stuck around for some time now. Imagine this; loving someone that once loved you: not a pleasing thought. When you realize and/or acknowledge someone is extremely special to you, never let them feel normal again, and never let them go. Don't assume they know you care, instead let them know, tell them everyday, assure them, because if you refuse to do so, perhaps you'll never get the chance to, and you’ll be too much too late.

Key: stop caring for those who don't care and appreciate you; start loving those who do and very much adore you, its’ that simple. When you’re given compassion, why waste your time trying to get chosen and/or approved by others?  Don't wait to lose something wonderful in order to take notice of it's tremendous value. And yes, there's a lot to learn and gain by losing, but why make that the only way, option to win in life..Be wise and know what preserves happiness; it’s much better to keep something right than it is to get it back right. Realize what you have before it becomes what you once had. Don't be so oblivious to what God has laid before you.

Eliminate Emotions, And Give Logic A Chance:

Making permanent decisions based off of temporary emotions such as: anger, frustration, and disappointment can cause permanent damage--don't allow these emotions impart confusion, or allow them to have a massive, negative impact over your life; don’t permit that your bad mood ruin a good situation. 

Whether in an relationship or just in any situation, neither you nor your partner is perfect, nor any thing in life; however, do try and strive for excellence. Practice compassion with mistakes. Give them some cushion to mess up, learn from it, and improve in that area.
How will you ever experience the joy of making a good thing great if you aren’t patient enough to invest time towards having the real thing? Learn patience. In order to get the benefits you righteously deserve-one must wait the time, endure the pressure, and survive the struggle. If you’re one of those people who run with emotions, be prepared to live with regrets.
Think before you speak. Think before you act. Learn to keep your calm and think things thoroughly. No-one deserves the smooth sailing, easy, piece of cake days if you quit every time things get tough/rough.
It's easy to jump to conclusions and move with assumptions before you seek out the facts and/or truth. With the exception that some will give the absolute truth, and some will not. Some will be receptive to it and some will not. Either way, you’re never sure until you know, and you’ll never know until you ask, but if you’re too prideful to ask then be humble enough not to assume.
There is no perfect relationship/life but just because the situation isn’t perfect doesn’t mean it won’t be worth the wait and/or the effort. Seeds of faith can blossom into a beautiful garden full of genuine love when planted in the right soil, and solid grounds. Prepare the foundation before you begin to build; it takes time to build a firm foundation. What you put into your situation determines what you get out of that particular situation.
You can’t give a half and expect to get a whole. Always give your one hundred and ten percent; never lowering your expectations, never allow a person manipulate you to the point you risk your values, morals and standards. You are all you've got and that's everything; only you know what's good for you. Listen to your intuition; which tears down any and all emotional barriers. The wise live by faith, while fools rely on unrealistic truths.
In the event you're not up for the challenge, perhaps backing away from it will save you. Don't focus so much on the battle, however do put your energy on making it through the war. All in all, a battle is a battle, one doesn't weigh more than the other, people will be tried and tested, still suffer, and endure pain..
Remember: God is no respecter of persons; He will actually intervene in your life, help you, and fight your battles for you. There is nothing too impossible when you allow God to intervene and when you surrender all to Him, for He holds your world in His hands. Fret not, stay grounded, be humble, and be unwavering. If He got you out of that, He'll see you out of this.

Stop. Be still. Wait.

There's absolutely no pleasure when things don't turn out the way you had previously planned. And in some cases, you may find that it's actually for the best, surprisingly. When you get to a point where you're not sure how to proceed: Stop. Be still. Enter into the silence. Cease from all your restless thinking. Wait. Let the answer come in its time. Take the time to step back from your disappointment, reflect, re-connect with your passion, release all negativity, and replace all with positive energy. Rest assured that there will always be a positive, effective way to move past any adversity and a clear shot to move forward. Not everything is lost, because you still have the now, chance, ability and the desire/opportunity to make things right. Grasp, take hold of the fresh new opportunity, and run with it. Stop worrying about how others live their lives and focus on living yours, because you don't want to waste your constructive time, nor miss your blessings. If you're "still breathing" then you are most fortunate and are certainly given a fresh new opportunity to change and make things right. The time is now. It's never too late to turn things around.

In It, Not Of It:

Take pleasure in the adventure while in the physical world. We're all in it, but not of it.  We come from a higher source. Receive the gift and enjoy—refuse enduring the struggle. Center your consciousness in what you know is true, and in the truth of your being—your true reality/identity—see your earth life for what it actually is. Knowing it's an enjoyable diversion, lessons in truth, and always a challenge for future enhancement, and growth. #InItNotOfIt

Time Is Everything:

One Lifetime: each one containing countless options, possibilities and decisions, in which only one can emerge; each with the ability to create and/or erase another...

I strongly and undoubtedly believe there's a time for everything, a time for every purpose, a season for every activity,  and not everything happens for a reason.