Thoughts On Trust:

Trust can be an issue for most because most people don’t understand exactly what it embodies, what it provides. Surely it's nothing to play with or to take lightly. In fact, it takes time to build but it and/or could possibly be ruined in a matter of a second.
Define, discern who deserves to be trusted. It's a God given quality to be able to identify the qualities that trustworthy people have, and this keeps you from wasting time dealing people who lack them.
There are some issues of trust that don’t derive from a lack in honesty, it could be from an inability to find acceptance. Let me put it in this perspective--when you know something and you purposely ignore it, denial is then the issue, not necessarily trust. True, there are several qualities needed for trust, and I’ll share four that should never be compromised.


1. Consistency; are their words in line with their actions.
2. Honesty; make sure their “yes” means yes and their “no” means no. You shouldn’t have to decipher through codes/signs of confusion just to get a true, real answer from somebody.
3. Accountability; do they recognize when they’re wrong and are humble enough to make things right.
4. Loyalty; are they the same person regardless of who’s around.

People who change just to fit in can never hold you down; they have yet to define who they are. Seek an understanding when the issue is with trust itself or when the issue is with you just not knowing what or who to trust.

Whatever It Takes

Having a "whatever it takes" mentality will drive out any doubt/confusion; knowing it will work for you, without a doubt. Seize the moment and refuse depression of whatever circumstance(s) you may be faced with today from stealing any opporunities that are presented to you. Are you desperate enough to do whatever it takes?

Consider all that.

"It's That Time”

One of the worst presumptions a person can make is believing that something you strongly know you deserve isn't right for you, "now." When given an opportunity at love, there's no other perfect time than to take that chance for an eventful changing journey, now. Love does not have to wait on perfect timing; love has no limitation, true love is everlasting. The problem being is people are scared and therefore they waste time. Unfortunately, the reason people build up so much anger, resentment and frustration is by refusing, rejecting their chances and then realizing it's too late--missing out, simply delaying a blessing, or prolonging a chance that could perhaps be a chance worth taking. Don't let fear be a factor in why you might be missing out on your next best thing, or an experience of your life time. So many of us catch ourselves saying; we’re not ready for this kind of love, this kind of relationship, or this kind of career because of comfort, comfort zone, routine lives. Stop being scared. It’s always easy not to try, not to care, and more than anything, hiding behind fears. With the exception that if you are refusing faith, you are only setting yourself up for failure. Failing is easy but winning takes effort. What real woman, real man in their right mind would give up on someone who was willing to treat them, show them, bless them, share their lives with them, only to make their life that much more rewarding. Wouldn't you want to step up to the plate with an opportunity like that; which doesn't come often in ones lifetime. Don't be afraid to show, share your radiant light, your success and happiness. If you convince yourself that right now isn’t your right time then it never will be; however, there will come a time in your life where right now is all you’ve got and you’ll have to make that time the right time. Sometimes we just have to step out on faith, take a leap of faith and say; it's that time, now!