When you need closure in a relationship and it is not forthcoming, you simply have to give it to yourself. Holding onto something completely out of your control is draining, distracting and does a disservice to everyone around you. If you are facing a similar situation, simply let go, give yourself the gift of closure today and look ahead to brighter days. Why not start by remembering all the wonderful things you experienced and shared, and not focus so much on the bad moments; even if the bad over weighs the good. There are a couple important points one should never take away, and those are: actions speak louder than words and not everything, no matter how spectacularly wonderful it appears/feels, is meant to be. That last one is probably the hardest. It's probably one of the most toughest processes to progress and overcome. In addition, one must always do the following; learn from your mistakes and/or bad choices, a very important applicable key. Always love no matter what, if someone can't accept you for who you are, and are willing to give, that doesn't mean you have to compromise yourself, nor give up on you, and what you believe in.
A few things I know and have learned is; I'm not a dreamer when it comes to relationships, sharing my life with a special person. Knowing who you are and need in life, helps establish your way of what you'll accept, tolerate, and/or not.
Sometimes our only transgression is simply being blind to the possibility of it not being the right person (in regards to an intimate relationship).
Whether it be an intimate or platonic relationship, if both parties are not invested, someone will always feel robbed. In some cases you are forced to accept that not everyone is willing to reason or listen to cogent advice/reason--the furtherance of the crime is when you know it and allow it to continue. There is a saying that goes: "a leopard cannot change its spots." Ultimately, who we are at our core is precisely that and well embedded.
Truth being is, at some point you have to let go, forgive, forgive yourself and let be......#tf
