Tuesday, September 20, 2016

It's Not Rocket Science:

We all have to come to the conclusion that not every person you meet, encounter, fall in love with will have the capacity to acknowledge, understand, appreciate the goodness you may acquire. Many have grown accustom to drama, arguing, debating, and not knowing when to pick their battles. They are so used to dysfunctional relations, surroundings, upbringings so much so they don't value the simplicity of what's good and/or notice a good thing when faced with one. 

It's not rocket science--the problem is most people are too busy playing mind games, not being true to their feelings, and not owning up to what they say and so their actions speak volumes. 

Why are so many asking for something real when they can't bring real to the table? Too many running and rushing into finding love instead of letting love find them and/or learning to love themselves first before expecting others to love them. 

Maybe this is the reason why people walk around most of their lives wondering why it's so difficult to find love or why love can't find them. 

Perhaps the first thing we must learn in order to keep things in perspective and on track is to first learn to respect oneself, have some respect for others in order to receive respect in return, teach people to respect your time, how to put forth the same amount of effort as you do, learning how to keep your word followed by your actions, to always be honest and staying consistent. Loyalty abounds in rewarding results.

Love is a battle field full of fields of magical love waiting to happen. Let love happen. Love doesn't come easy and when it reaches you, it's worth the challenge, worth the sacrifice. In order to let love grow you must give it a chance to experience the electricity of two force fields emerge. Don't fight it, work it.


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