No-one can have what is yours, and you cannot have what doesn't belong to you:

You don't have to stay up all night trying to fight to defend what is yours. If it's yours, it will not work for someone else; you cannot effectively fight in another's armor, and you will not find success if you try to use their stuff. If it's for someone else, you cannot have it and it would not work for you even if you tried. 


~T.D. Jakes