[To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved.]
If you’re an amazing person then be an amazing person. Just don’t waste time trying to prove it to someone who doesn't care. You shouldn’t have to prove to someone that you’re a great catch. They should prove to you that they have a great hand. Doesn't matter how good you feel, or fit with somebody, a forced situation is the foundation of a fake one and one that is surely to be set up for failure.
You can’t open a man’s eyes for him; he has to want to see, and you can’t open a woman’s heart for her; she has to want to feel. When you get weak excuses like “you deserve better” leave them alone because the person you deserve will be the one that tells you “it gets no better.” You want a partner that doesn't need you to show your cards for them to know that you’ll play a good hand. You’re with the wrong one if you have to wear a crown in order to be recognized as royalty.
Many times insecurity is mistaken for one being insecure of themselves verses one being insecure of the stability of an relationship. You must know exactly what your partner is insecure about; is there a reason, did you cheat, are you giving your partner doubts based on what you said verses your actions, did you play a part in shaking the foundation of the "relationship" rather than thinking it's the "person" who is insecure with themselves? It's very important to know the difference between the two, and be very discerning and observing. Learn the relationship.
Don't cheat each other from the truth and reality of whats considered logic. If your partner denies the truth, and not welling to face it nor accept it, nor work on the surfaced issues, then it's time to let go, and move on. Dating and starting over may be very uncomfortable and extremely painful, but it’s not as painful as knowing you’re wasting your time. Don’t try to be what somebody else wants you to be; what’s making them happy may end up making you miserable. If the one you love can’t recognize you’re special, they may just have to learn to appreciate you by losing you. Sometimes you have to forget what you want, in order to remember what you deserve.
If you’re an amazing person then be an amazing person. Just don’t waste time trying to prove it to someone who doesn't care. You shouldn’t have to prove to someone that you’re a great catch. They should prove to you that they have a great hand. Doesn't matter how good you feel, or fit with somebody, a forced situation is the foundation of a fake one and one that is surely to be set up for failure.
You can’t open a man’s eyes for him; he has to want to see, and you can’t open a woman’s heart for her; she has to want to feel. When you get weak excuses like “you deserve better” leave them alone because the person you deserve will be the one that tells you “it gets no better.” You want a partner that doesn't need you to show your cards for them to know that you’ll play a good hand. You’re with the wrong one if you have to wear a crown in order to be recognized as royalty.
Many times insecurity is mistaken for one being insecure of themselves verses one being insecure of the stability of an relationship. You must know exactly what your partner is insecure about; is there a reason, did you cheat, are you giving your partner doubts based on what you said verses your actions, did you play a part in shaking the foundation of the "relationship" rather than thinking it's the "person" who is insecure with themselves? It's very important to know the difference between the two, and be very discerning and observing. Learn the relationship.
Don't cheat each other from the truth and reality of whats considered logic. If your partner denies the truth, and not welling to face it nor accept it, nor work on the surfaced issues, then it's time to let go, and move on. Dating and starting over may be very uncomfortable and extremely painful, but it’s not as painful as knowing you’re wasting your time. Don’t try to be what somebody else wants you to be; what’s making them happy may end up making you miserable. If the one you love can’t recognize you’re special, they may just have to learn to appreciate you by losing you. Sometimes you have to forget what you want, in order to remember what you deserve.
~Thoughts For The Day
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