♥LOVE♥ is a choice:

they say: "you never know what you've got 'til it's gone."

Well...my perspective on this here is:

One, I don't want to know what coulda been, shoulda been, what if....Because, secondly, I definitely do not want what didn't belong to me in the first place--it would never work--it would be a constant battle. All I'm looking forward to is what the future holds for me, and the BIG surprises the good Lord has in-store for me to embrace! I only want and need what belongs to ME! Period.


Walking away from an (on and off) relationship, and mind you, it's surely one of the hardest,  most difficult things for one to endure, and the strength to let go; especially with all the time invested--Hearts, and Lives being severely shattered, all the confusion; but, by the grace of God, being totally, completely restored, and onto a speedy recovery. Awaiting what the next chapter in your book of life will hold.

Many are not aware of the relationships other people have, or are not fully informed, nor involved, in any way;  they don't know the goodness of it, what they're going through, what they've had to endure, overall, one mustn't judge, or try and assume they know how another person(s) relationship status is, etc...The fact is that most like to keep their lives private. And some things in life must remain there, private.

And please, if you are in a dysfunctional, toxic relationship--under any and all circumstances, I'd like for you to hear what I'm about to say, and that you take it to heart, and that you may engrave it deep within you: please remember, that you are a valuable, beautiful person--God fearfully and wonderfully made each and everyone of us (this is His word), and He didn't make mistakes. You deserve nothing but the best, and your happiness is crucial. NEVER let anyone steal your joy, value, morals, your character, your spiritual being-because being in a toxic relationship will  eventually steal all of those valuable characteristics, if you make the choice to continue. Ultimately, the choice is yours.


You matter! You are important!

Share your life with people who love you , uplift you, who support you, and your dreams. Don't surrender, submit yourself to people who have no control over your life (or theirs), and are only there to bring you down and make your life miserable: only because they have yet to figure out who they are, they're unhappy with themselves, and feed off of good, sincere, honest souls. People of that kind are called Jezebels (they don't know love if and when it hits them, they take loving people for granted, and thrive on draining others of the positive, warming energy with their decit, manipulation, and are utterly shameless, without remorse)!


Furthermore, it doesn't matter how much your in-love with someone, your love for them, if they don't love you back. Your love doesn't matter, to them. Being in love is being in ONE accord, in harmony. Share your love with someone who will not take it for granted and that will, hopefully love you with all they've got. When I love, I do just that, LOVE, with ALL that I've got!


God is LOVE, and where there is no LOVE, God is not present, nor a part of. And I want God's abundant blessings, and so should you.

Lastly, when I let go, I do just that--Let Go! LOVE is a choice!  Let Go, and Let God!  And, don't regret your past life, regret you invested your time on the wrong people, however. Let them be a lesson.

Don't ever compromise yourself for no-one, you are all you've got.

Love will find you.

Never the less, I thought I'd share this with you, and in hopes that this perhaps might shead some light, bring comfort to a current or past situation.

Peace. Love. Joy. ♥ =)